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04-13-2008, 08:39 PM | #31 | |||
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http://www.dbsalliance.org/site/Page...uicide_suicide
What You Can Do to Help Someone Among the many things you can do to help someone who is depressed and may be considering suicide, simply talking and listening are the most important. Do not take on the role of therapist. Often, people just need someone to listen. Although this might be difficult, the following are some approaches that have worked for others:
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04-13-2008, 09:03 PM | #32 | |||
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if someone tells you they don't want to be here... not that anyone here would do this... but ...please don't tell them... I don't believe you want to die... if you did you would already have done it... This happened to me recently.... I struggle daily... abbie (mods...delete if this crosses the line...)
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04-13-2008, 09:34 PM | #33 | |||
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Bizi tons and tons of thank yous for that link! I do feel kinda bummed that my pal is feeling depressed cus who wants their friend feeling sad and all... no one dose.
Abbie I hope that what I am chatting about is not making you more sad or anything. I am sorry if it is because I honestly do not want to make anyone unhappy or anything remotely close to that. so in the link info it says "Do not take on the role of therapist". since I have been through rough times myself and have gotten pro help would it be wise to use some of the things that I learned and that helped me should I say this helped me ect ect... or should I just listen ? I guess that is a play it as it goes sorta thing eh?!! well all the info I have gotten from you both will be put to good use and I thank you from my heart for sharing and helping. I will probly be back here posting if I need more help or have questions as I move through this with my friend. THANK YOU!!!!! Peace BMW |
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04-13-2008, 09:35 PM | #34 | |||
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BMW... keep talking...
I'm ok. Abbie
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04-13-2008, 11:38 PM | #35 | |||
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BMW,
yes tell her some things that helped you.....do this in baby steps too....let her reactions guide you. You are her friend and friends share....let her vent as much as possible....let her talk as much as she wants...learn how to have a pause in the conversation...long pauses in conversations can be uncomfortable but will allow her the time to verbalize the hard things that she may be feeling. Of course ask open ended questions to encourage better dialogue. I wish you much luck with your friend....does she have a pdoc/tdoc or taking meds to help with depression? you could encourage her to seek professional help if she doesn't have that worked in yet. you are a good friend. bizi
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. Hattie the black and white one wrestling with hazel, calico. lost hattie to cancer..... Happiness is a decision.... 150mg of lamictal 2x a day haldol 5mg 2x a day 1mg of cogentin 2x a day klonipin , 1mg at night I will not give up in this weight loss journey, nor this need to be AF. 3-19-13=156, 6-7-13=139, 8-19-13=149, 11-12-13=140, 6-28-14=157, 7-24-14=149, 9-24-14=144, 1-12-15=164, 2-28-15=149, 4-21-15=143, 6-26-15=138.5, 7-22-15=146, 8-24-15=151, 9-15-15=145, 11-1-15=137, 11-29-15=143, 1-4-16=152, 1-26-16=144, 2-24-16=150, 8-15-16=163, 1-4-17=169, 9-20-17=174, 11-17-17=185.6, 3-22-18=167.9, 8-31-18= 176.3, 3-6-19=190.8 5-30-20=176, 1-4-21=202, 10-4-21= 200.8,12-10-21=186, 3-26-22=180.3, 7-30-22=188, 10-15-22=180.9, |
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04-14-2008, 07:46 AM | #36 | |||
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Bizi I sent you a private message but wanted to post and say thanks so so much for helping and sharing that info and the link.
I will let you know how things go . God Bless!!!! Peace BMW |
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04-14-2008, 09:15 AM | #37 | |||
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My neighbor said something else that struck a cord...she said no one calls anymore...that her phone rang off the hook 5 weeks ago but now, not even her family calls her. Nohope...seems I remember you saying pretty much the same thing.
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04-14-2008, 02:35 PM | #38 | |||
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first I have to say that nik-key... you seem fimular to me and I need to ask if we might have met on line a few years ago and ask if you have t.n.????? And also nik-key how sorry I am to hear of such a hard thing... things you are dealing with. there are many many folks here that care and listen and help you have found your way to a wonderfull place here at neuro talk !
--------------------------------- second had long visit with friend and things went well the info perpared me and was so right on and helpful. I am very greatfull for everyones help and the talking of it and info. it ment so much to get it and is PRICELESS!!!!!!!! so from myself and my good friend a huge heartfelt thank you Biziz Abbie and alffe. I am so glad you all are here and have helped me. i dont know what else to say except God bless... and i may need you again cus i am not a pro at this or nothing and I dont want anything to happen to my friend. I am really wiped out from last night and my day so far today .the weather is windy out and to get cold for florida tonight so my T.N is flaring up a bit right now I need to go relax and maybe possibly sleep . gosh stress isnt fun. Peace , many thanks and A truck full of blessings to each of you! . BMW |
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04-14-2008, 03:38 PM | #39 | |||
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That is such an excellent link Bizi posted...I think it needs to to stickied to the top of the forum.
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04-14-2008, 04:10 PM | #40 | |||
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Some days... most days I have a hard time here... I feel guilty.
I read what you have written about how you feel because you've lost someone to suicide. I struggle daily, fighting so that I don't make anyone feel what many if not all of you feel. I don't want to hurt anyone... Abbie (don't worry... i'm not doing anything... i'm just verbalizing...)
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