[Jodylee]

I just want some opinions. I don't want anyone to think I'm asking for someone to make this decision for me .

I'm planning to leave my verbally abusive husband. If I divorce him I will lose.my health insurance and my income is too high to receive medixaid or anything else.

There is no legal separation in FL. My original plan was to just separate to keep health insurance. Now I'm really having my doubts. This will keep me under his thumb. Every year I'll be worrying that he will drop me if I'm not 'NICE' to him. I'll still have to have regular contact with him about debts, taxes etc.

I'm not on a dmd so I don't have to worry about that expense.

I plan on seeing an attorney soon but I already know my options because I've seen one in the past.

So what do ya think? Keep my sanity or go for the security? I should've made this a poll lol! I just want opinions here I know I need to decide this for myself.