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Curious 08-20-2008 08:45 PM

LOL..no..someday faith will be sitting with her daughter, having a conversation about HER daughter and their relationship. :D

y'all will be fine faith. it's the circle of life. :hug:all part of everyones growing up. even us mom's.

FaithS 08-20-2008 08:57 PM

Oh, Curious; that IS funny. :D Would serve her right wouldn't it; what goes around, comes around.

I had attitude problem in HS too. Lasted longer, I think than DD. Started sooner. I came around. Loved and respected my mom. Hope she will too.

~ Faith

hollym 08-21-2008 07:50 AM

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Originally Posted by FaithS (Post 351465)
Oh, Curious; that IS funny. :D Would serve her right wouldn't it; what goes around, comes around.

I had attitude problem in HS too. Lasted longer, I think than DD. Started sooner. I came around. Loved and respected my mom. Hope she will too.

~ Faith

She will. Don't just hope that she will, know it. She is in God's hands. Trust that you have done your job. It sure sounds like you have.

hjmom 08-21-2008 07:34 PM

Faith,
I think at some point things will be ok too. It seems to take longer with some than others, so who knows how long it will be. I'd say just be consistent in showing her you love her - telling her and talk to her about her feelings and your feelings also. I'm told that even though sometimes it doesn't seem like they are listening, they really will remember those things.

Myself, I would still have a curfew for my teenagers whenever they are living at home regardless of age. My DD is 18 and she's never stayed out past 11, but she's in her last year of High school this year. I just won't let them come in at all hours of the night while we are trying to live there and having to get sleep for work, if for no other reason, it's disturbing to us. If they want to do that, then they will have to be 'adult' enough to afford their own place. Just my parent rules. ;)

Hang in there, it'll get better!

FaithS 08-21-2008 09:44 PM

Thanks, Kathy, for that.

Yeah, my DH wonders if we gave DD too much freedom, but . . .

all of her friends had it, too. And, until this summer, she made, what we considered, responsible choices regarding what time to be home.

And, we each choose our battles. Too late to back-track on that.

~ Faith


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