I agree you need to follow your heart! if something (someone) is telling you to go now you need to listen to it!!!

Glad to hear that you are going to see her Sarah! How far away is she? Enjoy your precious time with her.

ohhh a good 7ish hours away by car...but hey, I either will go in two weeks....just baby and I...or maybe the following week and have my mom tag with..not sure which..now that thinking of it....excited so maybe in two weeks hehehehee

I will go on a WEd. and stay thru the friday....taking one day off other than my usual days off....

I also gotta double check..now that she starts another experimental drug thru university...tomorrow....gotta check her schedule for the visit...

hugsss all, sarah

I'm glad you decided to go, you will never regret it.

Sarah, my thoughts and prayers are with you, your sister and all the family.

update...well not good ...
never mind in two weeks..I am heading down tomorrow with Maddie baby..and my 13 year old daughter....thru friday....quick but gotta do it...

Madeline last report, there is liquid in lungs..and something about a growth or spot by heart...not sure about that..but either way...dr said..she wont be making a november wedding....talked about hospice...and natha to the treatments......she is lots closer than we thought....

I called my bro in law....told him I was thinking in two weeks to come down...but can I come tomorrow...he siad yes..as long as all know to help themselves...

anyhow...the wedding plans...well madeline and hubby and the girls...got on conference call with their son in texas...and all decided next weekend...they are having a small only the immediate family there...wedding..while they all will be there......so none of us will be going..just their family...>I feel that is sweet and speical for them....

my parents are heading down tomorrow..my mom is lost ..LOST....so I was helping her know she can handle this..God will help her as she worried if she can really see Madeline go thru this next few weeks....

I told her God will make her strong to get thru it...

gotta get to Mikayal bball game...hugss all thanks so very much...and heading down tomorrow...I am hoping little maddie her namesake can bring a smile to her during her pain...hugssss,sarah

I'm glad you're going, Sarah. So sorry for the circumstances but you'll not regret making this trip.

I can't even type this without crying.....just so happy you've got this chance to talk to her and say things that are in your heart. I never got that chance with DH and my sister didn't know who was there (I don't think) but I spoke to her as though she did.

You're all in my prayers, Sarah.

Sarah,

Please know that we are all there with you in our thoughts while you are taking the trip to see your sister. I also hope that seeing little Mddie will lift her spirits. I can only imagine how difficult this must be for you and your family. Be strong and take care of yourself too.

Prayers for a safe trip and lots of love during your visit Sarah. Let Hospice talk to you and the family. They know how this all happens and what to expect. They are wonderful people.

I would have been lost without hospice. I cannot say enough about them....they saved my sanity.

yes sarah,

hospice is a great service and organization.
they will help not only your sister but her family.

she doesn't have to wait til the very end.
they will take her now.
i hope they consider it.

blessings to your sister and your family.
have a safe trip sarah.