well,
dont recall what I updated last...although my broinlaw has been talking to her dr..and dr mentioned 3-6months....(weeks ago) she doesnt know the time frame he mentioned...she doesnt want to know.

talked to my brother in law today, it was touching I let him know I and hubby are here for him and his family...that he is more a brother to me than inlaw...as when they were dating I was 10 or younger..and used to climb on him..get shoulder rides, and such....younger sis and I used to bother him to pieces I am sure....reminded him of that..hehe

we talked a while, he was saying she is pretty lathargic at times, which it is becoming tough for him realizing it might be closer each day....

well my nieces boyfriend, asked them for their daughters hand in marriage the other day...then asked my niece to marry him....they are planning quickly..a wedding for Nov 22nd or 29th...in hopes for my sister to be there at her daughters wedding.....(something she keeps saying she would miss the most....to not see either daughters wedding...)

hoping and praying that her day isnt called before those dates....help me...to pray she is strong enough..and that she isnt in too much pain over these next few months....

she is in pain, liver painful, think she is on strong meds for it....so maybe the lethargy stuff is somewhat the meds...so hard to live this far away....

my best friend that I hardly get to talk to...shame right in town here...but anyhow just talked to her...she mentioned she felt she didnt have enough time with her mom before cancer took her mom....her mom was strong and didnt talk much about it...
she told me cancer when it gets to liver can become quick...she suggested if my heart is wanting it...to get down there prewedding..time...and visit...even if take the long trip one day...spend the night and part of a day..and travel back...if it needs to be quick...

thinking of it, gotta talk to hubby...but maybe on a Tuesday I could head down with baby..maybe my younger sister could go too...and get down for a night or two....(hard as we both have five kids...) but I may want to find a way to make it work.....we will see..

otherwise either date, in november we are going to find a way to get down for the wedding.....

hugss all thanks for your support..and if still reading my rambling..thanks..hugssssss, sarah