Hi well thank god it was cool enough i could ware my hoodie so no one could tell if i was wearing my bra. I was looking in the sears fall and winter catalogue and came a cross a strap it is called forever new hide a strap. It clams to pull bra straps together and hooks them in place in the back so the straps should not fall. It is not quite like the one Fern was talking about but it might do the trick and you can check it out at sears. I also wonted to say the tanks that have the extra layer don't work for me a large tee fits but then the inner piece wont and if i get a x-large well the shirt is just to big. Bye for now good luck

After surgery I lived in a 'sleep bra' I think it is called. It gave me enough support that I didn't feel like I was sagging all over the place and I could go out in public pretty easily (it was late March though so I was able to hide under coats and such...Now I have lil problem with bras (probably because I need it so I just deal with any pain). I do have problems sometimes with the straps falling down but buying a better fitting bra has been the answer there.

My surgeon did mention a breast reduction...I am not sure how I feel about that. I guess I will wait and see...

that's a good idea- lots of nursing supply places sell sleeping bras..