I'm okay...
Just a long day.

Glad to hear that you are ok, Kay.
It really was a lot.:eek:


Sending good thoughts.


M

All of the doctors I see regularly understand that my mental health comes first and I need to be on the medications I'm on. I just don't know what a surgeon will say, especially because of the side effects I've been experiencing.
I can't stop taking the Seroquel for a couple of days. If I miss my night meds for even a night, I go through very unpleasant withdrawals.

The problems with our upstair neighbors have escalated. They were totally out of control again Thursday night. When I told Corey about it, he flipped out and made me call the office. The office manager, Janet, never contacted them after the first time I called :mad:
I told her what was going on, and that she had to call them, and I didn't care if they knew where the complaints were coming from. While I was on the phone, Corey was totally flipping out. She said she would call them...
I don't know if she called them yesterday or not, or what she said, but last night they were worse than ever... So I don't know if they were trying to punish us, or if they're just really that f- terrible now.

I went to get my nails done this morning, and on the drive back home, the closer I got, the more my anxiety started to build up- to the point where by the time I got here I had a full-blown anxiety attack :(
Because I'm going to have to deal with Corey flipping out when I tell him what happened because he was asleep on the other side of the apartment (he has to work today). And because I was worried about running into one of them, and worried about what's going to happen tonight. Also...

Corey keeps talking about moving now. He kept yelling about it while I was on the phone with Janet, who overheard. He said he wanted them to move us to another apartment. She said we "wouldn't like the rent," which has gone up $200 in the last year, but is less than what we were paying before we moved here. I told her I liked our apartment, and didn't want to move, but after last night, I don't see how things will improve, and I don't know how long I can keep living with this s-.

I don't think they will move us to another apartment. Corey told me to start looking for a new one again, and I don't like the idea of that... we were lucky to find this one because of the 3 cats. It was sooooo stressful, and I don't want to do it again so soon.

I don't know when to expect the surgery, but I obviously won't be in any shape to move for a long time afterwards.

So, right now I'm f- miserable :(

I am so sorry you have to be enduring this on top of all else.
love
bobby

Maybe call around and find all the apartments that he can't afford.

Then if he really wants to move he will figure out that its not going
to happen.

Is there any way you can call the cops on the neighbors instead of
the apartment complex at the time its happening. Especially
if they are loud.

Donna :hug::grouphug:

We really can't afford to pay first, last, and security on a new place anywhere right now without almost draining our savings account because we took that hit for the AC repair, and are still trying to catch up. I told him the only way we could move is if the leasing office here would agree to move us to a new apartment. I don't think the rent, even with the hike, is really that bad. The rents around here are RIDICULOUS.

I think that if we called the cops on our neighbors, rather than asking them to keep it down, it would reflect negatively on us in the eyes of the office staff, and they might even terminate our tenant at will (which is month to month).

They were quiet last night. We heard them when they came home, and they were totally trashed. I guess the were too tired to raise hell. It was a nice break.

My anxiety is really high, and I have been doing quite a bit of cleaning for the last two days. I really needed to catch up with my housework, so It could be my OCD, which sometimes gets worse with high anxiety. IDK, but sometimes when I get really worked up, it triggers an episode.

I may visit the office on Monday, but I won't be able to if my anxiety is too high. I may come off as irrational or something... I may have to just call again, which so far has gotten me nowhere.

Kay

Wish I could help. Sorry its like that.

Any chance you can tape or record what is going on.

Donna :hug::grouphug:

Kay,

I had upstairs neighbors like that once -- noisy as heck.
I sometimes thought I would go out of my mind.


They were on the third floor and we were on the second.

Eventually they were kicked out of the appt for whatever reason and
their stuff was dragged down the stairs or tossed out of the window by the
management.


=-=
I wish for your sake that they would either quiet down or move.


M

I am sorry you are miserable.
((((((HUGS)))))
bizi

I'm definitely having more than just anxiety. The Klonopin is not working, so I must be experiencing agitation, and I've cleaned most of the apartment in the last 3 days... I'm just driven even tho I'm exhausted. Before I vacuumed today, I cleaned the vacuum and the carpet cleaner, and then the air purifier, including the intake slots (with a whole bunch of Q-tips). For the first time in a LONG TIME, I couldn't take a nap yesterday (because I was too wired).
This came on quickly.

I left a message for my pdoc. I have no idea what she can/will do with me. That extra 100mg of gabapentin she prescribed last time was activating, and I'm maxed out on the rest of my meds.

I called the leasing office rather than going down there. I got no answer. Usually I don't leave messages, but this time I did- hoping the manager would get it instead of Janet.

Our tenant at will (month-to-month lease) says nothing about "quiet hours," but states clearly that tenants are not to make noise that disturbs other neighbors (doesn't specify a time). I mentioned that in my message.

Corey is not helping me at all. I do not want him to get involved because of his temper, and he wants to make threats, etc. He's driving me nuts.
I'll have to talk to him again tonight and let him know I'm not just dealing with anxiety, and he needs to be more careful with what he says.