Figured I'd round this out with a "thank you" for the people in my life who cared enough to love me AND fight with me. In their own way, they gave me the strength I needed to grow a backbone. It hurt to lose them, but this song always brings a smile to my heart knowing I was blessed to have them in my life for a little while.

It's the song from "To Sir, With Love" - one of my favorite movies during a very difficult time of my life.

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how do u get a ex boyfriend back

Hi Bec

I'm not sure if that's possible, or even desirable. I guess it would depend on the circumstances.

I never wanted any of my ex-boyfriends back, but after my divorce I wanted my ex-husband back. It worked for a while, but then the same old problems kept arising. It turned into a cat and mouse game between us, until both of us were exhausted.

When I finally broke it off for good and met my husband, I saw what was missing. My husband loves me as much as I love him. It didn't work with my ex-husband because it was one-sided. He didn't truly love me, and there was NOTHING I could have done to make him love me.

We can't control the emotions and desires of another human being. If we can, it doesn't last for very long.

My ex-husband and I broke up some 20 years ago, and we're both happily married now. We'll never be lovers again, but we've developed a true friendship that benefits us all - including the son we had together.

After watching this video, now I know where my mom got some of her sayings.

I don't know how many times she wrote this in a card. I didn't realize the significance until now. Thanks for the memories Kathy.

Ohhhhhhhhh...Jeanette Mcdonald and Nelson Eddy...be still my heart!!! I have this in my favorites now....thank you !!!! And I read the "scandalous" report of their affair, today no one would give a dam. LOL She is truly a timeless beauty!

To Sir with love....what a great movie that was!! More! More! Love this thread kathym......*grin