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05-13-2008, 01:42 AM | #11 | ||
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Um ... your last post sounds like: I'm done with this for now. But I want to give you something else to ponder, so I'll go ahead:
You are a sweet person to be understanding of why the people you grew up with, especially your parents, were so hard with you. But the fact that you understand why they were so hard, takes away nothing from the fact that it may have hurt you and diminished your feeling of self-esteem. You can state that someone or something hurt you, without blaming. Could it be that the feelings you had at the time were so unpleasant that you shut them away? This would account for the memory of that time being so detached. You are never too old to gain insight into why you feel and think the way you do, what you feel is hampering about it, and to change it. The brain is the only organ that is capable of growth till the day you die. "All" you have to do is find what you want to do or feel differently and what works for you to effect these changes. Simple, huh? LOL |
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05-13-2008, 09:21 AM | #12 | ||
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This is a very fascinating revelation!!!!! Working through this will help you to get comfortable with your past. Again, I did this same thing! What I have realized is that what you are doing and what I did was living your life without having it integrated. You are in two peices and what will bring you relief is to integrate your two selves. Have you ever heard of inner child work? This is what I did. Right now you are not accepting your inner child. Do you dislike him? You have to learn to love him. When you do this you will integrate yourself and finally feel all your power. Do you see how this is related to your low self-worth? Your upbringing brought you to believe that you are of no value and you still believe this. When you learn to love that little boy your self worth will skyrocket to where it should be. |
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07-12-2008, 12:52 AM | #13 | ||
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Yup. Abuse causes sickness.
Without abuse, there would be no sickness. If we all had secure jobs, adequate pay, a roof over our heads, if we could afford food for our families, if we could pay our rents/mortgages, there would be nothing for Psychiatrists to diagnose. Therefore, it is society that is sick, not individuals. Proof's in the pudding. -BPB Quote:
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