After I had my test, my husband was in there with me, he asked the doctor who gave the test how will this affect me if it came back positive. He said, " she can live a normal life as always. I have patients that still play football, baseball, and their life has not changed." They are better than I am or either I am more of a whimp. Going to work everyday is just about all I can do. Cooking supper, cleaning, etc before bedtime is out. That certainly isn't the normal life I had before. I ask the same question, what is normal. I missed the boat somewhere. Desert Flower. I can relate to your post. Something has got to change. I'm tired of being tired and trying to find a better outlet. I'm just tired of people at work thinking "get over it." By gosh, I am trying and heaven forbid don't even think about saying "I am really tired today." Anyway, everyone try to have a good day today and take care of yourself. busy