Nabilejlm -
You totally deserve to be happy with this man and in your life. I hope you will take daniella's advice and go to therapy together. Depression is a struggle and I hope you will not take that part of your illness lightly -- I know my husband has had his life limited due to my illness, but I cannot even imagine not having that emotional support - and physical support at times. We all have a need to be needed and you can be an emotional support to him as he is to you and he can also be a physical support to you as you continue to make him feel more loved than ever -- isn't that we all really need - someone who thinks we are amazing? Don't sell yourself short in what you can offer -- good luck to both of you and I'm hoping for a happy ending.