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Originally Posted by screwballpookie
Hi all,
Thought I would post since I haven't been on here in weeks.It has been a total mess around here. I have been dealing with the pain of my rsd and trying to keep the stress level down but that is impossible. I have a hearing a coming up on April 15th against wc and not even sure what is going to happen cuz my attorney hasn't called me in to talk with him in a while. I was suppose to go see an rsd specialist before the hearing and I haven't even heard anything from my attorney on that.All I know is this wc thing is really driving me crazy. Along with all that I found out 2 weeks ago that my 14 yr. old is pregnant by a 25 yr. old. I can't believe all of this. I am trying to be supportive of my daughter for her health while everyone is saying tell her to give it up for adoption. I told her no matter what decision she makes I am going to love her always. The 25 yr. old is trying to run. We as in my husband and I are dealing with dhs and waiting to see what happens to this 25 yr. old by the sheriffs dept. I am doing all I can to deal with everything but don't know how.People keep telling me that just becuz he is being investigated doesn't mean that there has been charges against him. I don't know anymore I am so confused. I try not to cry in front of my daughter. I know there has been a couple of times these last couple of weeks that I have literally fallen down to my knees and screamed and cried. I know what good does that do me right? Well I can't help it. It is just to much for me. I want so badly for everything including my rsd to be a huge nightmare that I can wake up from. I know it is not tho. I can't get my hubby to work with me alot of the time. All he can do is yell at me for my daughter being pregnant and how wc or my attorney better do something soon because he cant keep working like this and paying out so much for my meds. He said it is killing him. I told him to tell me to leave and I will if he thinks it would make his life easier but he keeps saying no because state would get him in the end. So no matter how u look at it he is screwed. So see I can't with anyone or anything and I just want to give up.I have been fighting for so long now and I have no support group except you guys on here. There isn't one close enough to where I live.So I just have to try to hang in there the best i can cuz my daughter needs me to help her through all of this. If it weren't for her I think I would have given up a long time ago. I just don't know how much more I can take. I am so scared. I feel like I am sitting in a corner waiting for the next person to strike at me.Can anyone help me with some advice here? If not I 100% understand. I am trying not to give up but it is not easy.
Sincerely,
Tracy  |
Hi Tracy, I'm really sorry for what you are going through. I have been there and back. I too was a wc case and had to get an attorney. I was diagnosed with RSD in 1986 after I had to have Many back surgeries due to catching a patient at a nursing home from falling to the floor. My attorney was fantastic, if I ever had a problem with anything my attorney would file for an emergency medical hearing in front of the judge.I think you need to demand action from your attorney. If you have already been accepted as a wc case you should be getting 66% of your pay and all your meds and almost anything your Dr. orders. Get on your attorney's back ASAP. As to your daughter getting pregnant My husband and I went thru the same thing with our daughter, she was 19 and still living with us. Yes we were very upset with her and the father was nothing but a dirtbag no job no money and to top it off ,he was 25 and had gotten 6 other girls pg. My husband wouldn't even look at her let alone talk to her for the first 4 months. I imediatly took her to my Dr. and we began our 9 month journey. After a while when things settled down My husband was back to talking to her and listening to her and her wonderful plans as to what was going to happen after she had the baby, Yeah right, she had us so buffaloded. Nothing happened the way she claimed it was going to be. Anyway, bottom line we now have custody of the baby and the baby is now going to be seven,and you know what she is the light of our lives so from what we thought was going to be awful has become one of the best things ever! Just keep on going, and try, try to believe things will get better. Your friend Wendy
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