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06-16-2010, 10:55 PM
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((Blue))
Sometimes you remind me so much of my friend... you know, back when she was still sweet and caring. You have to promise not to go and change like she did, kay? Just kidding; I know that you'll always be just as wonderful as you already are.  Love you Blue 
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06-17-2010, 12:37 PM
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"although it's true that I can tolerate people less and less the older they get, (or at least until they're over thirty)."
 So glad to read this Lonely1....I'm finally very tolerable.
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06-17-2010, 05:14 PM
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(((((thelonely)))))
You are so sweet and very kind !!! I love you too and wish you can start to feel better soon (TOP SECRET: Im sure you will) How are you today ?? ALFFE: Oh Lord woman, one of these days, you will kill me with a "laugh attack" |
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06-17-2010, 09:00 PM
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I am... working... a lot.
No time for anything else. Thanks for asking though!
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06-18-2010, 06:58 PM
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Hi Lonely1!
I hope you are enjoying your new 2nd job! Over time, as you decide what you want in life, you will have opportunities to build/rebuild a support network in your area. Fantastic! When you are ready, you can set an intention to do so! We all have to work at relationships, in order to maintain them. Life shifts endlessly, needs change, goals change, friendships change... we have to be ready to shift, along with all that is going on around us, in order to stay "in some form of a relationship" to those around us... while life and people evolve. Although we often find people we can be more relaxed and open with, it is never a good idea to gravitate toward one friend only. It can feel too confining as each person grows... and often terminates the relationship. We are better off to build networks of friends, with each friend having his/her own special significance.  We all have special friends and times in our lives we'd like to "recover." While the memories are great, sometimes, we just cannot recover these, as life had drawn people onto their own paths, which eventaully led in another direction. We can be grateful for the memories and the life lessons! It is important that we know our own worth, as we do not lose self and/or our worth when we lose a friend. We may grieve; yet, we progress in our grief and move on, eventually. This is especially so... if we intend to get to a place of moving forward. You cannot lose by moving forward. You may find great joy! Plan on finding great joy ahead on your path! Intend for it! Invite it into your life! In life we may love, hopefully we do. We also always have to be willing to "let go" of others. We love them dearly; yet, we cannot let them define us and our happiness.  I takes guts to move on; yet, how stale life becomes when we don't! We were meant to fully live life. This is why we find it disheartening when we are isolated and feel "stuck." We are not in sync with our own life potential and we may even feel like we are dying a slow, painful death. Engage in life! You DO have what it takes to form healthy friendships! You just need to decide when you are ready to do so! Your friends here will rejoice with you!  Many are caught up "in the wrong crowd" and don't know how to get out! They'd give a great deal to be in a place of mindfully building friendships and an overall support network, according to their real inner needs and according to their desires for their lives. Joy lies ahead! Intend upon it! YOU are about the future!  You have whatever it takes! You deserve great friends in your life! Go get 'em! ~DejaVu Last edited by DejaVu; 06-18-2010 at 08:08 PM. Reason: spelling |
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