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12-04-2008, 05:24 PM | #21 | |||
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Enjoy your bath! (I think I can hear your music. *grin)
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12-04-2008, 07:15 PM | #22 | |||
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(((bmw))) i just want you to know how healing your post is. you are a very special and brave survivor. i want to say more but cant right now. i cant see through my misty eyes to type anymore.....later....i love you all..
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12-05-2008, 08:22 AM | #23 | ||
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thanks ALL -- for sharing, saying so much... more than I can address.
thanks so much BMW --wish i could say, give more, as you & others have, are... doing, giving so much... when so much has been dealt to you, and other very special & brave survivors here... THANKs is all that comes now, along w/ tears... |
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12-05-2008, 08:57 AM | #24 | |||
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Hi pono and welcome to our family.
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12-05-2008, 09:03 AM | #25 | |||
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Hi (((pono))) you must be a brave survivor too. I want to say more but I have a bad headache this am...I need to find something to dim the glare on my screen.....but I just want to say Hi too and welcome to our sos family.....
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12-05-2008, 12:06 PM | #26 | |||
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I have big lumps in my throat right now...I had it last night, actually and I swore I left you, BMW, a note on your personal page but now I couldn't find it and I wondered if I'd left it on someone else's personal page. LOL
*note to self, NEVER leave notes on personal pages when tired!! *smacks-self Quote:
I think this is why this forum is such a gift. It gives those of us that are "quiet" another outlet than talking to a hotline. I feel comfortable coming here reading the old posts or new posts and when the feelings are strong, it is good to just have this forum opened on my puter screen...not sure why, that alone has saved my life many times throughout the years... This was a gift that you have bestowed upon us, Alpho....thank you for starting this forum many years ago and that it has carried us through and hopefully many more (of course, thanks to Doc and the mods for providing a new home for the forums itself). I had a lot on my mind and all of a sudden, they are all gone.... be back to post more later wanted to welcome PONO (sorry, I added an "R" where I shouldn't have. LOL) and give (((((BIG HUGS))))) to all.... my deepest respect and love moi
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12-05-2008, 12:14 PM | #27 | |||
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that is exactly my thought whenever someone would tell me, "moi, that's just the way it is..." I would often thought, yes, I know that's just the way it is, but if I accept it for just the way it is and everyone else accept it for the just the way it is, then it truly will be: It IS what it IS and sometimes, that's just NOT good enough....*sigh.... the rest of your post just showed your strength and what an amazing person that you are, nik... there will always be folks that are afraid and/or can't/don't want to talk about it. But then there are folks like you that want to address it. And we need you to speak for others thus make others feel OK to at least "listen" even if they can't talk about it... truly are a warrior, nik...truly...added that with your compassion, I truly believe that you have SAVED/helped many others... so, I will say thank you, for them, AND for myself.... ((((BIG HUGS))))) Quote:
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12-05-2008, 12:26 PM | #28 | |||
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dear mistiis,
almost 9 years ago, when I first appeared on the SOS forum back at the old place...you were one of the first ones to open your arms to me. I remembered our little group back then that evolved into a huge family.... in all these years, even during the times that you were MIA, I've seen such strength in you that have developed (not that you didn't have any in the first place, but it just got stronger and stronger) and you are definitely one of my heroes. you say things so well that often reflect exactly what I wanted to say, so I'll just let your post speak for me as I steal it from you. LOL so many faces of suicide like David has stated, and it is so wonderful to hav this home to hopefully address all of it...or at least do the best we all can to speak from our minds... I can totally see how you would all of a sudden bow out of that conversation... yet, I believe deep in my heart that you have opened the doors... sometimes, the instant reaction may not be what we wanted but I am sure it made an impression in their minds. Sometimes, situations doesn't allow us to ask questions or discuss questions immediately. And sometimes, it requires more thinking that will lead to the "eureka" moment... it's like for me. When I was younger and brash and impertinent, there would be folks that would say things to me that I would brush off... but I must tell you, I always retain it and it is later on in life, that all of a sudden, something that someone would say would "click" in my head and then: "EUREKA!" I GOT IT!!" I was always happy to have those little eureka moments that the only thing I'd hated about it was that it would take so many years to sink in... but sunk in they did and once they are sunk, they are sunk... the wise has always been there...it just takes time for the dumb ones like me to get it sinked in.... ****warm fuzzies**** (I remember when you would do this and I would joke to myself about sending you warm Scudzies (missles) LOL ) Quote:
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12-05-2008, 12:33 PM | #29 | |||
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BMW,
I read this last night, it gave me a big lump in my throat, I have read it three times already...still have lump in my throat... you are the definition of a survivor...you do not have to be afraid to hit that send button. If this post were to be deleted (which I doubt it will) I will fight tooth and nails to have it brought back... it is stories like yours that will help others... it is stories like yours, that opens doors and open "eyes" to those ignorant. When you, nik, mist, alpho, and twinks, and others share like you do, it is when this place, "Survivor of Suicide" forum truly lives up to its name and standard. I don't feel that you have the need to lurk... You should stand proud and I am honored to stand proud next to you. I know you'll have your struggles for the rest of your life, yet, from posts like this, it tells me that you fight, and you fight it so well... I am so honored to be amongst such a group of people... thank you so much for sharing... Quote:
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12-05-2008, 12:36 PM | #30 | |||
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Alpho,
thank you for starting this forum... I wished place like this existed when I was a kid, when I was younger, when I was crass and stupid.... thank you for sharing your pain with us....through your pain, you have helped healed many others. twinks, I see that you are opening up little by little...I am very proud of you... pono, great to meet you, I hope you get to post more. But never about anything that you are NOT comfortable with... cheri, thank you for moderating this place so well, you have one of the toughest jobs and probably one of the most thankless jobs.... THANK YOU thank you all for sharing.... to all my friends and lurkers... ((((BIG HUGS))))
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