Hi all, or whomever has read my posts and been kind enough to respond. My husband has very low working memory and recall memory. He also possibly has ADD..maybe even Aspergers. But, here's the tricky part, the therapists say he has "really good adaptive skills." My question: would this cause him to repeatedly make "life" plans and then down the road change his mind? For example, say he wants children, work on adoption for a couple years and then without any regret or remorse or emotion change his mind? This is exactly what he has done---repeatedly. I don't trust his choices or decisions any more. Probably a wise decision don't you think?