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Old 07-03-2008, 06:18 AM #31
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Anytime Barbara!!!Have a lovely day!!
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So happy to hear of some joy in your life.
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Thanks. Chris will be here in 1 1/2 hour to take me out to eat. I've been ready an hour ago. I don't know what to do but sit here and wait. Maybe I'll watch the news.

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Chris and I had a nice dinner out. He opened doors for me. We came back to my house as he gets up at 3:30 a.m. for work so there was little else to do. He was the perfect gentleman. He massaged my shoulders for a few seconds while I was showing him pictures on the computer. We kissed when I got up from my seat and it was so nice. He smelled so good. That was it, we just kissed. He apologized for not being himself but his mind is heavy with his dad dying. Chris is going to call me in the morning. We both have been asked out to the shore.

Chris is a Vietnam vet and we were talking about PTSD and he said when he landed in CA from the war he was spit on and called baby killer. Him and I can relate with certain things like abuse. He held my hand when I was sad tonight. We had a good time listening to music in his truck.

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Oh Barbara! Sounds like you have a very enjoyable evening!! I am so happy for you! Ohh and you kissed...WOW...I bet that was delightful!! He does sound like a gentleman...enjoy Barbara!
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he sounds charming....have a great day tomorrow!
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I will not give up in this weight loss journey, nor this need to be AF. 3-19-13=156, 6-7-13=139, 8-19-13=149, 11-12-13=140, 6-28-14=157, 7-24-14=149, 9-24-14=144, 1-12-15=164, 2-28-15=149, 4-21-15=143, 6-26-15=138.5, 7-22-15=146, 8-24-15=151, 9-15-15=145, 11-1-15=137, 11-29-15=143, 1-4-16=152, 1-26-16=144, 2-24-16=150, 8-15-16=163, 1-4-17=169, 9-20-17=174, 11-17-17=185.6, 3-22-18=167.9, 8-31-18= 176.3, 3-6-19=190.8 5-30-20=176, 1-4-21=202, 10-4-21= 200.8,12-10-21=186, 3-26-22=180.3, 7-30-22=188, 10-15-22=180.9,
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Thank you Dorrie and Bizi.

Chris' oldest brother is coming into town today to discuss with Chris and the family their dad's business. Their dad has terminal cancer. I wonder why I alway fall for people dealing with cancer. It's going to be tough watching Chris go through this but tougher not to be with Chris. Chris has not been the same since he found out Monday his dad is terminal. Chris said he'd try to call me tonight.

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I'm most happy that you have good news and good vibes all over you right now.
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My date with Chris went really well Thursday. Friday we got together again and today I met his parents. It all seemed fine and dandy at 1st to be going so fast but this is making my head spin tonight. I'm not sure if I'm ready for a serious relationship even though I think the world of him and he is a true sweety pie. Somehow being alone seems safer emotional to me and I know that sounds crazy but I've just been so let down by family and friends that alone got comfortable for me. Alone got to feel normal to me and having someone does not seem normal.
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