Thanks for your replies and support.
Lynn, I'm in Aust too.
Kitty, yes I've had lots of bloods done over the last 2 years. The neuro I saw is a good one, but I guess back then with a clear brain & spine MRI, AND a clear VER, she didn't have much to go by?

At my first appt with her she said she suspected demyelination due to family history and sx.(my aunt has MS and my sister with 'maybe-we're not sure it's MS' dx.)

She's a good MS specialist, and was better than the other 2 dismissive neuro's I saw.

At my last appt with her she said she'd be happy if I got a second opinion, and to come back for another MRI. I never did get that MRI, and that was due in Jan last year.

I guess I've found my way back to NeuroTalk because I'm a bit scared of what's ahead.

If I get a dx of MS at this point in my life, I have wonderful support around me now compared to 2 years ago, so I'm in a better 'place' to deal with it, if that's the case.