I dont want to sound like everyone else just saying sorry, so i will say, Take care of you. you are always first unless of course u have children. then he need shot in his nether region.lol. anytime you need to talk i am here. He sounds like a fool to let go of someone just cuz there money was gone.. i told hubby, anytime he wanted out,,( no hard feelings) there was the door, he didnt sign on to be 100% reliable for my 100% care. and he said your not dead so im staying. not those exact words. So some day when you least expect it, i hope you find someone like i did. who wil be that way.. just who you need them to be.. again contact a lawyer, im sure he will have to pay some sort of monies to you in the long run. keep your chin up. pm me if you ever need to talk im always available..

Hi dc
Now that the major toxin in your life is out of the picture and out of your system (your ex) maybe you will be able to start to heal, even though your pain seems to have escalated. The amount of stress you have been under in recent weeks is enough to cause a major flare and more!

I hope it is a positive move to be closer to your family and that you can develop a new support system, and develop a plan of help from them, as well as from a church, social service agencies, volunteers, and friends..
Please look into relaxation techniques as they have been so very helpful to me, and to others who post, especially if meds are a secondary option..
I hope the infusion plan helps you...
time will help you heal, too...
Hope4thebest xoxoxoxoxox