Hi. I am so sorry with all you are facing. You really need support right now with all that is going on. Is there another family member or friend that can be there for you right now? For you attorney I would call him everyday till you get some answers. That is unacceptable to not even get a call. As for your daughter I wish I had more to offer. There is this realty show on MTV called 16 and pregnant and some of the children have the baby and some give it up for adoption. It shows the struggles for both choices. I would think the 25 year old is heading to jail. Can you as a parent press charged? I mean that is sick of him. Can you all as a family mom,dad,and daughter go to family therapy? Regardless of how your husband feels he needs to be part of this and should be helping you. Sometimes having aother party to ask ?'s and support can put things into perspective. I wish I had more advice. I just hope you reach out and get the help/support you deserve. You can't be there for your daughter if you are too sick. If you want an email buddy I am here. Even just a listening ear can help