Well as my husband will not accept my calls, I had an idea,the chaplain I talked to yesterday was lovely all though there wasn't alot he could do, but I talked to him again this morning and he is going to call andrews supervisor and get Andrews number where he is staying and HE is going to call and talk to him. Wish me luck!

Renee,

I am so sorry you are going through this. I'm glad you were able to talk to the chaplain. I think it is good that the chaplain is going to get involved and try to talk to your husband.

It's unbelievable how he can act the way he has. He should be ashamed of himself and maybe he will see that when the chaplain talks to him. If he doesn't see it, then he's not much of a man.

He needs to grow up and take care of his wife and children. If he wants a divorce, he should have the guts to do the right thing. That is all he needs to do is the "right thing".

I am sure the military will make him pay his debts by court order. Just keep plugging away until you get the right person to help you with all of this.

Bless your heart. I'm thinking of you and your kids and I am praying for you. Things are tough right now but they will get better.

My son's father left us in 1972 with nothing. My son was 2 years old and I was 21 years old. He just walked out with the car and all our money and I found out he moved to another state.

I scraped up the money to divorce him and he came back crying and begging for forgiveness. He wouldn't sign the papers so we published it in the law journal and it was done without his signature. I forgave him but didn't take him back. He never did the right thing and hasn't seen his son in 35 years and never paid a penny child support. I raised my son without financial or emotional assistance from anyone and it was tough but I did it.

I wish you all the luck in the world.

Renee, that's great that he's going to get them to call your husband. I still can't imagine why they think he was honest. Hopefully this chaplain can speak with him and make him realize that what he has done was so wrong.

wishing you the best of luck. I keep checking for your updates as I
think of you often. Take care of yourself Renee and those cuties you
have too.

Renee, I just thought of an idea. Since you are getting nowhere with the base, why not let your mom and some of your friends (hint hint) call and be witness to what has happened to back your story up? I know this has happened before in the military where family and friends called the command to verify what has happened. Maybe it wont go anywhere but it would cause Andrew verbal anguish when he gets back and cause his command to take notice that maybe he did lie.

I think that's a great idea, Sandy. Hang in there, Renee.

Renee, HUGSSSSSSSSS and more HUGSSSSS, just peeking in and realized what you are going thru....sorry for the awful times....hugsssss and good wishes to you and the kids...sarah

Barb, Finny, Sandy, Trish, I promise I am resting.

however... I got woken up by thick clouds of choking smoke...

they're doing a "controlled burn" downwind of me and I'm ready to bail outta here for the afternoon...

but I can't WALK far enough to get away from the pall of smoke, and mi esposo is gone on a shopping expedition.

Kay, Yuck!

Thanks for the update Renee. Wishing you luck and still continuing to keep you all in my prayers.

Kay - UGH!!! Sorry about the controlled burn as well as the fact that you are having difficulty walking. Not very restful is it? Maybe when DH gets home he can take you out of there!