[megveg]

I had to call the suicide prevention hotline today. (NT was down :[ )
I spoke with a guy name Brian and he saved my life.

It is physically painful for me to hold anything inside but it hurts even more if I say what I want and no one Listens. I can talk for hours but if no one listens, the pain just builds and builds. its like my skin is on fire.

My mother just brushes me off and tells me to relax, but how can I relax about wanting to die?

I just want help. I don't know how to tackle any of this.

I don't want to be depressed or suicidal anymore and I don't want these feelings anymore.

:[ i just dont know anymore

[Alffe]

I'm so glad you made that call Meg..and I'm grateful to Brian for getting through to you. Depression is such a monster...one you have to continue to battle. You aren't alone..I say that a lot around here but it's true..we have all been there at one time or another and managed to survive..

Please think of yourself at a total person...one with a future.

[Addy]

Hi MegVeg
I, for one, am sooooo grateful that you made that phone call - isn't it amazing that the voice of another human being can give us the rationalization we need to keep going.

I absolutely agree with the statement you have in your signature and it pleases me to know you, too, have been touched by Randy Pausch.... his story talks to my very soul and each time you share with us, you also remind me of his message. (IF anyone reading doesn't know his story, I urge you to google his "Last Lecture")

I'm so glad you are here with us - I really am!
Addy

[Jomar]

I'm glad you were strong enough to make the call for help.

That's a good step, knowing when you need to make the call and going ahead and doing it.

I think it is just really hard sometimes for family to accept & comprehend how you are feeling inside....
I hope someday they will be more understanding & supportive.

[Lisa in Ohio]

MegVeg, I am so proud of you for making that phone call. Your mom sounds just like mine. She actually told me this week that she did not think that I needed to take any anti-depressants, so I really understand how that lack of support and understanding hurts. It must be a wonderful thing to go through life without the burden of depression and hurting so much that you no longer want to be here. That said, I am really glad that you made that call, because I care about you. Lisa

[megveg]

Originally Posted by Alffe

I'm so glad you made that call Meg..and I'm grateful to Brian for getting through to you. Depression is such a monster...one you have to continue to battle. You aren't alone..I say that a lot around here but it's true..we have all been there at one time or another and managed to survive..

Please think of yourself at a total person...one with a future.

Thank you for your post, it's so hard to feel like my life matters when so many people/other things make me feel like it doesnt. thank you for making me feel like I matter.

Originally Posted by Addy

Hi MegVeg
I, for one, am sooooo grateful that you made that phone call - isn't it amazing that the voice of another human being can give us the rationalization we need to keep going.

I absolutely agree with the statement you have in your signature and it pleases me to know you, too, have been touched by Randy Pausch.... his story talks to my very soul and each time you share with us, you also remind me of his message. (IF anyone reading doesn't know his story, I urge you to google his "Last Lecture")

I'm so glad you are here with us - I really am!
Addy

Thank you for your words, its really calming and makes me feel centered when I come here to read that someone, somewhere is concerned about my well being (even if the people I physically see every day do not)

Originally Posted by Jo*mar

I'm glad you were strong enough to make the call for help.

That's a good step, knowing when you need to make the call and going ahead and doing it.

I think it is just really hard sometimes for family to accept & comprehend how you are feeling inside....
I hope someday they will be more understanding & supportive.

I appreciate your reply. I've had to make the call before add it makes me embarassed that i have to rely on a random stranger to talk to instead of being able to talk o my mom/dad/brother/anyone in my physical life. But it doesnt matter because the people here (and Brian) are more beneficial to my life than anyone in my physical life so far so thank you so so much

Originally Posted by Lisa in Ohio

MegVeg, I am so proud of you for making that phone call. Your mom sounds just like mine. She actually told me this week that she did not think that I needed to take any anti-depressants, so I really understand how that lack of support and understanding hurts. It must be a wonderful thing to go through life without the burden of depression and hurting so much that you no longer want to be here. That said, I am really glad that you made that call, because I care about you. Lisa

Thank you I care about you as well as everyone here on NT. Its like fighting an uphill battle everyday when you have no one who understands what its like to lose control of your own thoughts, and then I come here and realize im NOT alone


Thank you all so much, from the bottom of my beating heart <3

[Koala77]

Awww Meg

I have no wise words except to say that I too am grateful that Brian was available when you so badly needed some-one.

Please don't feel embarrassed that you told a stanger how you felt. I do believe that you can sometimes say it like it is to a stranger, where some-one closer is not distanced enough for you to open up. The councellors at the other end of the phone don't know you, so they're unlikely to pass judgement.... there's no reprisal for you with a stranger, and you can always put the phone down if you feel threatened. I'm glad you didn't though..........

And don't forget that telephone councellors have training that you and I don't have, and I wouldn't hesitate to use the service again if I felt the need.

[lebelvedere]

Originally Posted by Koala77

Awww Meg

I have no wise words except to say that I too am grateful that Brian was available when you so badly needed some-one.

Please don't feel embarrassed that you told a stanger how you felt. I do believe that you can sometimes say it like it is to a stranger, where some-one closer is not distanced enough for you to open up. The councellors at the other end of the phone don't know you, so they're unlikely to pass judgement.... there's no reprisal for you with a stranger, and you can always put the phone down if you feel threatened. I'm glad you didn't though..........

And don't forget that telephone councellors have training that you and I don't have, and I wouldn't hesitate to use the service again if I felt the need.

Megveg, Koala77 speaks the truth. You are not alone, and your situation is not unique.

Whoever you are -- I have always depended on the kindness of strangers.

Tennessee Williams, "A Streetcar Named Desire." (Blanche, Scene Eleven)

[Mark56]

Meg, it is so good to know you opened up to "a random stranger on the phone" for you see, strangers are no more once communication has begun. That person with whom you have opened up is in your sphere of the known. It is why those lines of comm are there when it is foggy and your aircraft needs to be talked to ground or...... when NT is down.

So glad you called, so glad you called.
Mark56 PJ

[wishnomore]

Hi megveg,

Sorry to hear that things are still not going well. But so glad to hear you reached out for help, and have been... I hope they gave you some good advice, it sounds like it by your post. Hopefully in the future, you won't give up either and will continue reaching out for help. If you ever need anything, you can always PM me too or email.