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Old 09-27-2009, 11:48 PM #11
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Dear WAves,
Thank you for sharing with us how you are doing.....
You have been missed!
I am sorry that you are going thru this hellrightnow. Being triggered is awful and it sounds miserable there.
I agree that you could use a different approach, what about partial in patient...where you meet daily for certain amount of hours therapists, counselors, there are programs like that here, I don't know about them there.
are there any?
I am getting ready for bed but will check in the morning.
peace to you sweetie.
WE love you and know you are a valuable lady, we need you here, don't leave us, I am sorry that you are struggling with the beast.....
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I will not give up in this weight loss journey, nor this need to be AF. 3-19-13=156, 6-7-13=139, 8-19-13=149, 11-12-13=140, 6-28-14=157, 7-24-14=149, 9-24-14=144, 1-12-15=164, 2-28-15=149, 4-21-15=143, 6-26-15=138.5, 7-22-15=146, 8-24-15=151, 9-15-15=145, 11-1-15=137, 11-29-15=143, 1-4-16=152, 1-26-16=144, 2-24-16=150, 8-15-16=163, 1-4-17=169, 9-20-17=174, 11-17-17=185.6, 3-22-18=167.9, 8-31-18= 176.3, 3-6-19=190.8 5-30-20=176, 1-4-21=202, 10-4-21= 200.8,12-10-21=186, 3-26-22=180.3, 7-30-22=188, 10-15-22=180.9,
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Dear Waves,

Here is a hug from all of us:



Keep talking to us if it is of some help.

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Dear Waves,

I'm sorry that you're having such a bad time at the moment. Thanks so much for reaching out to us. Writing here is a positive, proactive step that convinces me that you are capable of doing even more of the things you need to do to help yourself.

I agree with the others that you really need some serious intervention - now. I appreciate your eagerness to find employment. However, I wonder if you're like me and tend to cling to the thought that there is some "magic bean" that would make everything all better if you could just obtain it. I wonder if in your current state, a new job might just prove to be another stressor. Perhaps it would be better just to concentrate on how you're feeling right now? If hope of landing a job is keeping you from seeking care, then I wonder if that's in your best interest.

You really need help now. Please reconsider going to the hospital. If you don't want inpatient care, please be completely honest with your therapist. He/she can't help you without all the facts. If you can't articulate your thoughts orally, take your posts with you.

Please look for support groups in your area. If that feels overwhelming, let someone else do it for you. I suspect that just getting out of your house to go to group might make you feel better.

Yes, you need some time out from your domestic situation. I know that's hard when money is tight. However, even finding a quiet corner of the public library might give you a chance to recharge a bit and realize there is a world beyond your four walls.

Please keep posting.
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150mg of lamictal 2x a day
haldol 5mg 2x a day
1mg of cogentin 2x a day
klonipin , 1mg at night


I will not give up in this weight loss journey, nor this need to be AF. 3-19-13=156, 6-7-13=139, 8-19-13=149, 11-12-13=140, 6-28-14=157, 7-24-14=149, 9-24-14=144, 1-12-15=164, 2-28-15=149, 4-21-15=143, 6-26-15=138.5, 7-22-15=146, 8-24-15=151, 9-15-15=145, 11-1-15=137, 11-29-15=143, 1-4-16=152, 1-26-16=144, 2-24-16=150, 8-15-16=163, 1-4-17=169, 9-20-17=174, 11-17-17=185.6, 3-22-18=167.9, 8-31-18= 176.3, 3-6-19=190.8 5-30-20=176, 1-4-21=202, 10-4-21= 200.8,12-10-21=186, 3-26-22=180.3, 7-30-22=188, 10-15-22=180.9,
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Waves I am sorry that you are going through this!
Please stay with us <3

You are my friend. And light to me.



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Sending hugs. I have nothing to add. Everyone has given you good
ideas. Just take good care of yourself.

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Waves, I'm thinking about you now. Hugs to you.

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Dear WAves,
just wanted you to know that I am thinking about you.
and your poor cuticles.
I am sorry that it is so hard for you right now.
I really wish I had some great new insight for you....I really wish I did.
all I know is that you are a very valuable woman to me.
You are one of the smartest people I know and can count on you to explain stuff ...just like you did with the flu virus thread.
thank you for that.
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Hattie the black and white one wrestling with hazel, calico. lost hattie to cancer.....
Happiness is a decision....

150mg of lamictal 2x a day
haldol 5mg 2x a day
1mg of cogentin 2x a day
klonipin , 1mg at night


I will not give up in this weight loss journey, nor this need to be AF. 3-19-13=156, 6-7-13=139, 8-19-13=149, 11-12-13=140, 6-28-14=157, 7-24-14=149, 9-24-14=144, 1-12-15=164, 2-28-15=149, 4-21-15=143, 6-26-15=138.5, 7-22-15=146, 8-24-15=151, 9-15-15=145, 11-1-15=137, 11-29-15=143, 1-4-16=152, 1-26-16=144, 2-24-16=150, 8-15-16=163, 1-4-17=169, 9-20-17=174, 11-17-17=185.6, 3-22-18=167.9, 8-31-18= 176.3, 3-6-19=190.8 5-30-20=176, 1-4-21=202, 10-4-21= 200.8,12-10-21=186, 3-26-22=180.3, 7-30-22=188, 10-15-22=180.9,
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Waves...

I'm not much for words lately... just wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you!!!

Sending LOTS of hugs...

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