Wow Mari, I am so sorry that things have been kinda rough. Man, unreal about the self screening results, that is definitely a good thing that he's looking at his own mental issues, because "playing games" can destroy relationships...I know I sometimes feel like blowing up when Jack gets in one of his moods...

I hope things get better...I'll keep you and him in my prayers and thoughts....♥

Mari

Hope since he is receptive, which is fantastic.

That you can get some answers.

That is half the battle.

Donna

Wow what a good insite. Makeing seperate places. Making some personal modifications to make it your space, them have mutual space. While in the mutual space only consideration to each other is the rule.

Now I need to practict that with dh. I have been doing the house destashing and have been literally doing it on my own, two sons help lift. The dumpster has been here for a few months and all I have done is some of the outside of the house and two pieces of the sectional couch out because the new couch was in the front yard.

I took the one sectional and drug it to the stairs and left it go down one at a time. dh said I was "ignorant" doing it myself. Well after asking for help, and being put off, I needed it OUT to get the new one off the yard. P/U with older son to save delivary cost of 20%.
Now I still have the dual recliner to remove and will start to sledge hammer it to get it out tomorrow.

I got the bathroom done today, but can't stand up.....MEN!!!!! Its always about them, their time, their schedule, their decision and Like Mari....on their terms, why even bother to look at something any human can give imput or a thought, just blow off the wife to deal with it and not clutter there repetative game.
My dh is solitare on the IPad....
MEN!

DiMarie

Please take care of yourself is all I can say.

You have been taking on a lot it seems.

Donna