Hey. I am sorry for the stresses you have on top of the pain. I hope the trip to the keys is good. I am not a parent but to all those who are while dealing with RSD I give you so much credit. I can't even imagine how hard that is. A few thoughts one I am sorry your children are trying to make you feel guilty. Obviously I am not there but to me regardless of RSD or not kids should have certain chores and responsiblities. Could you and your kids sit down and have a family chat? I think communication is so key and also setting out guidelines. When your husband is gone is there a friend or other parents that could help you? Like a carpool? Well wishing you some easier times