It's a common tale, some catastrophe happens and then everything seems impossible. It's okay to feel sorry about how life changes, but it doesn't mean we can't have achievable goals. I laughed when "The Bucket List" movie came out because I set up a Dream list after I came home from the hospital. I've not accomplished everything on the list; but I've made a an indent in the Dream List and in fact have even added to the list. Some of the goals have been life time dreams that I may not achieve, but it gives me something to strive towards. Some goals may need input from the medical field, but I believe in miracles so no matter what I may make those goals. Because things can change so fast, its made it more important to not just stuff the list away in a drawer but to keep in where I see it to keep the dreams alive and to judge how far I've come in order to make the dreams a realisty. So don't stop dreaming, hoping.