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08-31-2012, 11:32 PM | #1 | |||
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Legendary
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Hi,
My boss gave me an unreasonable task tonight. I asked for Hubby's help. He said it was not something he could help me with ---- true or not, he still could have found a way to help me with moral support. I do that for him. Then he started doing a small but super annoying thing even though I told him to stop. He did it several more times. I told him that we are through if he EVER does it again. I asked him if he does it for a particular reason. He said, "It is a game.' I said I have asked him 1000 times not to do that. He does it anyway. Today was the last time. He is inconsiderate and selfish. I might as well deal with my boss who at least is nice in her self-ish ness. M |
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08-31-2012, 11:44 PM | #2 | |||
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ohhhh"it is a game" that is infuriating ...i would have lost it too.
sorry he was unsupportive of you. and I am sorry you were given an unreasonable task to do. ugh! bizi
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09-01-2012, 12:07 AM | #3 | |||
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Legendary
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Thank you, Bizi,
I raised my Gaabapentin dose a little tonight. I hope can work tomorrow without much fog. Maybe the Gabapentin will help with anxiety and depression -- and my snappiness. M |
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09-01-2012, 04:43 AM | #4 | |||
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I am sorry he upset you. I sometimes think about what it would be like to have someone here with me rather than the way it is. And I think that having someone around even if they " play games" would be better. I am sorry your boss gave you the task too.
I hope you were able to get some sleep. |
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09-01-2012, 06:22 AM | #5 | |||
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I am so sorry you are going through this. I hope he shows some remorse today.
bobby |
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09-01-2012, 09:26 AM | #6 | |||
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Legendary
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Dear Mari
I am really sorry to hear of all this going on. I hope the gabapentin was helpful and that you got through your work alright and got some sleep. ------------------------- As for hubby. WOW. I'm sitting here trying to figure out if his "game" is all about him, his own little world (autistic-like) OR if it has to do with you... an instigatory thing.... the first would need to be dealt with of course - if he wants to play games by himself he needs to do so in a physical space where hs noises won't interfere with you. the second idea is completely chilling. if that is the case he is a piece of work. i hope you can find ut what is oiiing on, and that he is nicer today. maybe it was just poor choice of wording and things can be worked out. i send lots of love and many hugs with the hope things work out well. ~ waves ~ |
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09-01-2012, 10:11 AM | #7 | |||
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Hi, Waves, Yes. His behavior is as you describe here. I know very little about autism but he does seem to have some traits. Maybe I can convince him to buy an walkie -talkie like device to call me when I am in a different room and I am focused on work. We have tried to work out issues of "space" but high pitched noises (almost bird-like) carry. M |
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09-01-2012, 10:17 AM | #8 | ||
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Sending you some hugs.
Some of the things you have said about him, have made me think of asperger's. I can't explain why. But its a form of autism. Donna |
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09-01-2012, 10:25 AM | #9 | |||
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Legendary
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Hi,
My tdoc and my internist have told me he likely has OCD. I think he has OCD Personality Disorder: http://psychology.about.com/od/perso...essivecomp.htm Individuals with obsessive-compulsive personality disorder typically experience:
This list describes him completely. Tdoc has said that he provides structure for me. Most of the time we can balance each other. Friday evening after a difficult work week when we are stressed we should stay away from each other in different rooms in order to avoid a blow out. M |
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09-01-2012, 10:28 AM | #10 | |||
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That sounds about right. Do people with Asperger's syndrome suffer from anxiety? He has a high degree of anxiety. M |
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