Tracy,
You and hubby need to come up with some "ground rules", and since he's working, you'll probably need to do it.

Things like:
No name calling.
Can't be positive, be elsewhere.
Bring positive to the table.
Could be a day, like tomorrow, that he drops of a heart attack, and NEEDS YOU! (not wishing that).

But, you see what I'm saying, some Rules that you Both Agree to!

)I cannot believe you see a psych, and this hasn't been suggested< you may need to find a new one)..

Anyway, As a man, I can easily see, that your husband is scared to death! It's not hate, or anything more evil that AFRAID!

Do what someone else suggested, find ways to lighten the load on the medicine bill. Ask you doctor for samples, and generics!
Talk to your doc about what expensive drugs you Don't really need! (Docs are taught, through advertising, to prescribe the newest, most expensive drugs on the market). Perhaps you don't need all that?

And, when you do some 'positive" things to take some stress off of hubby, show him, in a kind way.

Here's a tough one.
Do you realize that he's afraid? Do you give HIM a hug, now and again?
You can't be the constant needy one, without giving back some sugar! (Men "Run" off of "Sugar and Spice)!
Don't forget that.

You have a daughter, I didn't catch how old. But, please, don't make her home a "war zone".
That's selfish on both your parts.


Finally, I KNOW how much you hurt!
If your husband ever wants to talk to a man, who has all this crp wrong, I'd be glad to talk to him.
Sometimes we feel like, we're gettin' so low.
That, no place is home. And, Home is Hell.
That doesn't work for anyone.

The two of you, need to come together, and make your home truly comfortable, for your DAUGHTER!

I'm telling you this from experience, and my two children. They're strong, but were raised in a "BattleZone".

All you can do, is your best, everyday. Then, kiss the rest off to God.
Your psych doctor sounds like a lightweight, and, your regular doc, could be doing better on making your script bill lighter. IMHO.

Check it out?

Nobody can do this for you, is the sad news.
The good news is, You've got to do this for yourself, and your family!


Hugs,
Pete
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